Light My Today
Inner safety, self-leadership, and clean connection for this era.
This work is for individuals ready to stop over-functioning in relationships and develop inner authority without losing themselves.
You can be capable, thoughtful, and successful and still feel emotionally tired or unseen over extended in how you relate.
Many people quietly carry the emotional weight:
anticipating needs, keeping the peace, explaining, managing, holding things together.
Not because something is wrong with you but because over-responsibility once kept you safe.
At a certain point, that strategy stops working.
There is another way to relate to yourself and to others, from steadiness rather than strain.
Work with me privately
If you’re ready to explore this shift, you’re invited to a complimentary clarity conversation.
What this work supports
Releasing over-giving, over-explaining, and emotional self-neglect
Reconnecting with inner safety, self-trust, and steadiness
Setting boundaries without guilt or withdrawal
Creating relationships rooted in reciprocity, not endurance
This work is not about fixing anyone.
It is about no longer abandoning yourself..
My approach
My work is grounded, relational, and deeply human.
I integrate:
Science-backed coaching tools
Emotional intelligence and nervous-system awareness
Self-leadership practices that support calm, embodied choice
The work is quiet, deep, and practical —
focused on awareness, responsibility, and clarity rather than emotional intensity or quick fixes.
Who this is for
This work is for:
Individuals who feel emotionally over-responsible in relationships
Those experiencing relational fatigue, confusion, or imbalance
People ready for depth, maturity, and real change
While much of my work has supported women, I also work with men
who resonate with this approach and are genuinely ready
for self-responsibility and inner change.